Drinking & Friends
We’re all missing time with our friends these days and when we are together, it can be easy to get carried away. But did you know the people in North Yorkshire said if they had a friend to drink less with, it would motivate them to change their habits for the better. If you choose to drink less with your family or friends, it means that you can support and encourage each other.
We’ve put together some tips on how to drink less with friends and stay strong against peer-pressure:
Hold each other accountable
If you say that you’re ‘just going out for one drink’ make sure that you all stick to the limit you’ve set.
Change up activities
Pick something that doesn’t typically involve alcohol like a movie night over Zoom, an afternoon coffee and cake; a walk, a round of golf or any activity or sports. It might even work out as less expensive!
Set up a WhatsApp or other digital group to keep each other going. You could taste test alcohol-free wine and beer and post your reviews – good and bad! Or share your frustrations when you fancy an extra glass of wine but have stuck with a cup of tea instead.
Stand Your Ground
At first your friends might try and persuade you to keep drinking but if you explain that you’re not drinking as much, and stand your ground, your friends will learn to respect your choice.
Tell Them Why
Tell your friends why you’re not drinking – you could say that you’re cutting down for your health, your job or because you’re trying to save money.
Buy Alcohol Free Alternatives
Your friends won’t know that you’re drinking an alcohol-free beer, wine or mocktail unless you tell them, because it looks like an alcoholic drink – just without the added hangover. Check out zeroholic for lots of alcohol free / low alcohol content alternatives.
If you feel that your friends are barriers to you cutting down your drinking, then there are many online communities that encourage and support people who are in the same position as you. This can motivate you to cut down drinking and help you to make new friends!
Club Soda has a private Facebook group for people who want to cut down, one for people who want stop drinking completely and other groups.
Dry January and Beyond
Alcohol Change UK runs a private Facebook group for people who want to moderate or live an alcohol-free life in the long-term